I've written about this before, but thought I'd write it down to share with all of you, since this was a sticking point for me and for many of you, especially as you start to level up and get good at this. I read about it somewhere online, I believe the credit goes to Vin DeCarlo, but I've adapted it to my own use and it's been working out incredibly for me.
Sexualising the Conversation: we've all been there, trying to talk dirty without freaking the girl (or yourself) out, escalating your words while you simultaneously escalate your kino/touch. Most guys aren't hardwired to talk dirty, and it takes a while to get used to it without the proper practice.
To make things simple, there are only eight words you need to remember to get you started. These are eight common and "innocent" words, that on the surface are normal conversational words, but subconciously (for you NLP crackheads) embed sex into the girl's mind.
The words are
Start with these words. Memorise them. Use them more often when talking with a girl, not specifically to be dirty, but to use more often in everyday conversation.
You're having lunch with a girl, and she accidentally spills her drink all over herself: "Damn, girl, you're fucking dripping wet! What am I gonna do with you?"
"I'm going to eat. Come...join me."
She offers you a choice: "Damn, girl, you make it very hard on me...to decide."
"It's wet out there...I'm coming inside."
"I've thought about it long & hard...you should come...for ice cream."
"Deep inside, how do you feel about _______?"
On your way to pick her up: "I'm coming, babe
On your way to pick her up, AND it's raining: "I'm coming babe, don't get too wet until I get there
When she's meeting you somewhere: "Come now, babe, I'm here"
When you're waiting for her to meet at your place: "I can't wait for you to come"
When she's doing something challenging: "Do you like it when it's hard?"
At a restaurant, on a D2, the waitress asks where you'd like to sit: "I like it inside"
These words are innocent enough, but when used properly, easily set you up for more sensual and erotic conversation. (Make sure you're also escalating kino at the same time, so it's completely congruent, you master seducer you.)
Eventually you add more words, but these eight words should get you started. Learn them, memorise them, use them more often in conversation, get laid.
Next week (if I remember lol), I'll add more words to add to your seduction dictionary!