Are you a bad girl or a good girl?

[Action]

(online game)
Me: Are you a bad girl or a good girl?
her: I'm a good girl with a twist
her: i assume you are bad, aren't you?
me: I can tell you I'm not "the good guy". You'll have to find by yourself. Can you handle me? -spy
her: No. It won't work. sorry.
Me: Too bad, I'm sure you would have enjoyed meeting me. I'm leaving you my # so you know how to contact me once you change your mind -spy (xxx)-xxx-xxxx

... How would you have responded? ...

[DvF]

...I Wouldn't have givin yourself up

me: I can tell you I'm not "the good guy". You'll have to find by yourself. Can you handle me? -spy
her: No. It won't work. sorry.

that's like saying you are bad at sex.

Keep your frame on her, and don't let it focus on you as much. Also I could re-name it to naughty girl, not bad girl. Bad girl is too demeaning and negative to do any good.

her: i assume you are bad, aren't you?
Me: Why would you assume i'm bad unless your a naughty girl that can tell who other naughty people are.

[Jay-T]

I would not have given my # there either. Very try hard.

[Xerces]

I never give girls my number. Not online,in person or anywhere. I also dont take FB closes.

How much did this girl know you? It takes a little rapport to joke with a girl like this. At first I assumed this was in person. In which case you could make this work with your tone,body language etc..

I once had a girl bump into me and say "Oh Im sorry!"

X-I bet your fucking sorry! (Fake anger)

Hb-Hahaha whats your name?

Online game just takes practice. I hear theres a good program for it somewhere on this site...

[Action]

The obvious is that it didn't work out, but I am learning something from it.

DvF: that's the kind of stuff I usually try to say, but it didn't exactly went that way so I think it could have been a very good reply for my personality/style.

Jay-T: I tried something and obviously it didn't work. When do you usually exchange numbers yourself during online game?

Xerces55: We have one thing in common: no FB closes for me either. I however give girls my number especially online... irl I usually get their number.

How much do I know her: not. There's indeed a very good program and I got some info from Bravo to start with it and I'm trying it out and should get it if I continue to use online game.

I usually had problems in the past where the conversation would never end online and not concretise to a proper number close/d1 so now I try to close the online -> phone -> date as soon as possible. It didn't work that time, but I've got a date using the same kind of aggressiveness with 10 minutes spent online and 10 minutes spent on the phone. Sure as hell beats losing your time chatting online without any concrete close.

Thanks for the feedback guys, it is appreciated and I will meditate on this.

[Whiz Kid]

(online game)

her: I'm a good girl with a twist

So what's the twist? Your a good girl but you rob banks? Your good but you have a penis? Your good but your a secret spy? Your good but your a stalker? Your good but you secretly masturbate in the shower? Your good but you have lesbian desires? Your good except for that one time in college?

A million way to 'twist' this and frame it both sexually and/or transition into a DHV or your routine.

When she said 'twist' it was a opening for you to exploit to your advantage. Use it.

Life is epic!!

[Whiz Kid]

Thanks for the feedback guys, it is appreciated and I will meditate on this.

Don't meditate, as Yoda said, "Either do or do not, there is no try."

My Star Wars geek coming out!!

[Jay-T]

Here's how it normally goes for me:
Fun opener
Continue with opener
Qualification
Teasing
Numberclose. Sometimes qualification or the opener goes a little longer than that. My issue with the way you did it, you had zero attraction built when you sent your #. She had just said "No not gonna work out" and then you chased by sending her your #.

[DvF]

Here's how it normally goes for me:
Fun opener
Continue with opener
Qualification
Teasing
Numberclose

That's about what I do unless they go "wtf" with the opener then I DQ/tease with "I thought you'd have a sense of humor, I guess not" I've never had that fail me.