The Three Purposes for Calling & Texting A Girl

[DJNinja]

Learned this recently from Gareth Jones, thought you guys would find value in this.

There are three goals in any phone/text interaction with a girl. Your calls and messages should accomplish at least one of the goals, if not more at the same time.

Your message should work towards a date. Whether a D2, D3, or other, you should be focused on moving the interaction forward. Seed your D2s, try to get at least one phone call in so she knows that you're real and not just a serial texter.

Your messages should give you presence. She meets you at the club and gives you her number. She WANTS you to message her. But you don't message her for a few days...by then, she's chatting with other guys...while the heat she has for you gets cold. Use texting to spike her buying temperature and keep you in her mind, especially after you've locked in a date.

Your messages should sexually escalate. Most guys (admittedly, me included) get into running text routines which, while fun, don't move the interaction towards sex. So eventually you'll have to push yourself out of your comfort zone, start sexting/phone sex/asking for dirty pics/etc. There are a lot of great resources here by Taz, Science, Maestro, and others on how to properly turn a text message dialogue into a sextual conversation...

Happy texting/calling!

[Taz]

I'm still around from time to time just been so busy out here in the Stan,

On another note, which I will post more on texting 102 whenever I have time....

Women have one crazy imagination, and it is a huge erogenous zone

If you can make a woman feel safe and actually be a man and GIVE her permission to act like a sexual beast, trust me she will; she is just waiting for you to LEAD HER!

She will respond to you, if you are sexualy upfront and not creepy! KNOW THE DIFFERENCE!

You can't just go from simple texting to I want to bend you over and fuck the shit out of you without a weird feeling!

Needy - Want something from her, key word: WANT

Confident/Non-Needy = Strong/ Sexual, Respective; Want to experience sex with her

If you are sexting: make sure you know how to ger to her sexual core to relese the beast by making her feel like a sex goddess

Remeber, never apologize for your sexual nature! NEVER! If you do, you wlll be screwed, not in the good way and she will own the relationship! You got to own that shit not her!

[mavrick]

I've been using Gareth's stuff for the last few weeks and my phone is teeming with dirty pics now. and theyre not even all of me!

[Ralph]

I'm still around from time to time just been so busy out here in the Stan,

On another note, which I will post more on texting 102 whenever I have time....

Women have one crazy imagination, and it is a huge erogenous zone

If you can make a woman feel safe and actually be a man and GIVE her permission to act like a sexual beast, trust me she will; she is just waiting for you to LEAD HER!

She will respond to you, if you are sexualy upfront and not creepy! KNOW THE DIFFERENCE!

You can't just go from simple texting to I want to bend you over and fuck the shit out of you without a weird feeling!

Needy - Want something from her, key word: WANT

Confident/Non-Needy = Strong/ Sexual, Respective; Want to experience sex with her

If you are sexting: make sure you know how to ger to her sexual core to relese the beast by making her feel like a sex goddess

Remeber, never apologize for your sexual nature! NEVER! If you do, you wlll be screwed, not in the good way and she will own the relationship! You got to own that shit not her!

Ok Taz, say I meet a girl at the club, we talk a bit nothing crazy, but she has enough interest to give her number. I wait a couple days and text her saying watsup, after a couple of texts i tell her we should hangout soon or make some plans of that order. Am I beating around the bush or whats a better approach?

[Jay-T]

You shouldn't wait a few days. I text immediately.